A small church

A crow roosting on the dock flaps 

both wings as my bike rolls 

     by the water's edge  

I take this as a blessing. 

From high on this coiled trail,  

I see a man step into the lake 

     and part the water

      as if he held a sword of light 

 

not a fishing pole. 

In the thickets, bats cry their syllables 

and phrases and so with awe 

      I stop my wheels 

     

to better hear the choir sing. 

And as the sun ebbs, 

the whole lake glitters 

      as if a million tiny candles flicker,

     as if saints and angels swim 

among the fish.

Again I stop and strain my neck 

toward this small church 

       below,

      the one named Lake Chabot.  

Valentine kisses for the grandson I raise

So here we go again. 

Valentine's Day. 

    My old love long blazed

to ash--now not even 

    ash. 

In my palm what he left me --

    heart blown in heavy glass.

I see my face in its candy 

    apple shine

which I use to trace its shape 

    on paper--a Valentine 

for my teen boy 

     who makes it clear 

he does not care about such things, 

     least of all from Grandma now that

what matters to his heart is how 

     he styles his hair for today's

Tick Tok masquerade.

But what good is life without love?

    Even unrequited?

So I fill the pouch with chocolates, 

    each wrapped in blood red foil 

shaped as teats but called a kiss.  

Tonight  I set the gift where in the morning 

    he will eat his toast.  

All night they wait for this flashy boy--

    this
dozen unwanted kisses. 

New chances on a sunny morning

Here's another chance to feel at ease.

      Maybe hear a compliment about 

an unexpected aspect of your anxious self. 

Another chance to forgive them all, 

     to accept something--finally.  

Begin with a Swiss cheese and spinach omelet topped with salsa.

     Already feeling health and gentle power. 

And then the chance to plant bare feet 

     on the sand where herons lift

their humongous wings as you meet their land

     and you all glow with immortal soul.

Another chance to dream you are not a clump 

     of matter formed from flotsam in exploding stars.

A chance to ride a bike on a new trail, flat and blooming,

     all yours, another chance to stop

by the wide lake, lean your sore back on a rock 

     and write two good lines, 

 about silvery fish and purple berries--consolation 

   for all that fails to last. 

Another chance to be at ease on Earth, 

     to think of not one thing

that must be changed.  

Puberty

 It takes him away all at once.  

      Like a kidnapping.

One average day

     on a walk to school, 

 the love the child carries for you

     flushes out like milk                

from a leak in his thermos.  

The way that child looks at you 

     one evening over dinner 

is a look you have not seen before. 

     You can't be sure 

      you saw what you saw.  

The way that child speaks to you 

     is not the same tone, 

not like any previous tone.          

And for a long time, his sweet face                

    appears in your dreams on a

   poster pasted on power lines.  

 The new voice, new gaze sweeps 

     into every moment going forth.

Quiet as midnight,

     cool as that dark.      

All day I stroll with the dog in the Redwoods.    

No thoughts of him 

I raised from birth

     who now shaves his face,         

him I pampered and praised--perhaps too much 

     because, well, he was so                

beautiful,  

so tender in all God's ways, 

     and exiled into my life.     

When I return to the house,      

     it hails me again—

      the strange voice, that novel gaze

—that face-slapping loss.

After my friend entered hospice

We were up all night, 

the nurse says. 

She is  asleep now.

Come back tomorrow.

Why wake at all, my friend?.

Why face this gruesome 

dying another day?

All your horses now sold. 

The house and husband gone

Every organelle betrays you.

 

When my man understands Spring 

will not light his brown eyes again

and the ants have carried off

every trace of his last ham sandwich,

he looks from our breakfast table 

past the bowl of oatmeal into

the pod of pills.  

Shoulder to shoulder we fix 

our eyes on those ripened ovules.  

I can think of no reason for him 

to down them except to keep

with me another day.  

I would not do it for him 

as we once agreed and now 

he will not do it for me.  

The air feels stale and hushed. 

Alone we two now on this moon. 

One of us now untethered. 

When they carry him out, one says:

there appears to have been 

no struggle. 

I tell her nurse I'll return tomorrow

but I do not. I walk on the shore

and meet a mess of driftwood,

one bleached skeleton raises two 

crooked arms as if it wants 

to hold me. 

I come here because they cannot

be the fleshy one in this dream.

Because it is a gift I am offered.   

I want to receive it. 

Talking with my friend who has cancer

Next thing I know, my friend does not sound 

like herself on the phone. 

Her voice crawls on elbows through 

the tunnel between us.  

Dragging, unresponsive

as if her body's motor can't turn over.  

The musical patterns remain--a few light notes, 

a pulse of laugh, a few light notes, 

another pulse.  .  

I think of ways to make her laugh 

--it's always been so easy. 

My thoughts remain out of sight

far from the tumor hidden like a stump 

along the rolling hills of her brain.  

I am told, let the patient lead conversation. 

And so I wait for her next words. 

While so,  I recall the ceiling of chandeliers 

at Home Depot. 

Each a sparkling castle, 

each crystal nudged by a gust 

to tap against the edge 

of the body of the other. 

Candle

Thank you, old pier

for standing here

so many years

keeping your 

worn legs and back

still, strong, straight 

against the wind.

Thank you for holding fast

in the currents against 

the storms that want 

to take you out limb 

by limb.

Thank you for your beauty 

so welcome tonight

on his birthday, gone 5 years 

but resting somehow in

this hovering purple mist.  

Thank you for the planks 

that recall his dark brows, 

for the spray like his silver hair.

Thanks for your stillness, 

for this lovely pause 

as the moon shines on your 

old bones like a candle on a cake.