I'm listening

Come, she rolls her eyes toward her bedroom

and shuts the door.
We sit side by side on the bed and I sink 
into her force and fold my hands in my lap. 
My mother wants to talk about the war again
away from my father’s ears.
Today it’s Bucharest where a gypsy unfolds
my mother’s palms on the table and reads 
each line as if it were a highway with a clear 
white line straight into the future.
You will marry a foreigner, you will never be happy. 
My mother falls silent in the story, I see no 
movement in her eyes, she has left me on the bed 
and she is standing at that little table in Romania 
staring at her young pink palms, 
her feminine fingers, those manicured nails 
trained to pluck a violin, 
wondering how could these hands forsake her?
For years, the war hovers around my mother. 
For years she sits in dark rooms with eyes closed. 
I want to ask about the foreigner in the next room
but she holds one index finger to my face. 
Please, no questions.

The first time

He can barely get out of the car. 

He has to cup the rim of the door with both hands 

and pull himself to his feet, taking sucking breaths,

mewling, all bones bundled in fleece, an old ram, unsure, 

stumbling and sinking. 

He hates this stage of life, its shame, its servility, so 

I do not offer my arm.

We have not spoken in years and now he is not himself, 

and when I open the restaurant door, 

he stops at the first chair, collapses into it

as if just pulled from a plane wreck.

The man with no liver orders beer. 

I say nothing.

He used to make his own in the basement. 

One New Year's my mother threw bottles, some landed

on his head, because he was too drunk to go to the party. 

Under layers of wool, his head seems small, 

it dangles over the menu, membranes shrunken

like a raisin, juiceless and fluted. Then something 

I say charms him and his body quales with delight 

and then he winks, You're ok, kid. 

It is the first time he ever lets on that he likes me.

Unless that's not what he meant, in which case 

he has never let on. 

Waiting

 My mother’s motor is always racing. 

Get going! Hurry up! She's a blitz.  

But I keep staring at the wet pavement,

I am counting cracks and maple bark

soaking in their sweet sweat, I'm far inside

the humming world

and before I know it I’m flat in the street,

a motorcycle wheel spinning on my back 

on Columbus Avenue, the driver 

kneeling and praying beside my head.

I'd run too fast across the street--

hadn't dared to keep my mother waiting.

And now I hurry her along. 

Time to go! Let's not be late! 

Now the widow stands on her one good leg, 

chain-smoking on the porch, 

coat on, doors locked, impatient for this ride.

I fold her walker, hear her grunting, hear the lowering

of her crippled self into my car, hear the nervous 

hurried motion from not wanting to keep me waiting. 

I could have touched her with my palm. 

I could have have said, Please take your time.

Fire

It is a ghost my mother says 
that wakes her up that evening 
when the flames spill
in her house like water.

It is that tap, that gentle rap 
against her arm, she has no doubt, 
that wakes her to the scent 
of hell nearby. 

She wishes, wishes very hard, 
that God be somewhere, but never can 
affirm it.

And yet she swears He sent that ghost 
to her that day. 

My mother trusts in two opposing truths at once:
God really does, and really does not, exist. 
Like life, God happens only when 
all things stack up just right.

Good morning

Mornings are life at its best; you sniff 

the mints in the moist air--so clean so fresh
(if you don’t rush, if you savor)
with new growth--and you catch a raucous 
opera in the trees, the first sip of French Roast, 
all distracting you from the future
(you forget there’s even such a place)
and your desire for an easier--for an eternal--
life and yet you’re quite aware 
that somewhere a clock is ticking 
with possibility.

At the sink

My  mother chops with fury

at her kitchen sink.

I stand beside her jabbering, So

if I’m 10 that means you and daddy 

were married 11 years ago! 

Her head swivels.

Stop that stupid talk!  

(I didn’t know the truth till later.) 

For this, indeed for all her odd 

mutations, I never blame myself. 

We come from different worlds.

Hers in ruins behind her, 

mine right here in front of her.

Still I do my best to please.

Bought her a little St Theresa,

(her favorite  saint) 

with my babysitting pay.

Oh how she hates Kool-Aid stains 

on my shirt, the sound of bubbles 

popping in my mouth, that immodest 

laugh I got from her,  how my hair 

sweats on my head like seaweed. 

Pull that hair off your face!

Once in a rage, she hacked it off.  

For weeks, I wore headscarves to school.

That’s what you get for being so American!

It wasn’t just her mood talking.

It was the old world singing in her then.

Flight (When I was 15)

A helicopter carries my mother

to the next town where there’s a room

that can stem her bleeding disappointment.

I do not miss her gaping eyes,

how they rob me of nerve, my real self, 

or how her mouth whips the air into

storms and hail stones.

But for a time, when she returns,

chloroformed, my mother has no more 

longing for what she lacks. Her throat 

bursts at times with song, all her rancor 

and despair seems burned to ash 

in these cheery, most welcomed

holocausts and I want to throw some flowers

at her feet.